I've come to really enjoy sparkling wines and champagne in the past two years. I'm so glad that I have an excuse this weekend to have a glass or two. Gotta toast to the end of 2011 and hope for a much more prosperous 2012. Side note: Please drink responsibly. There's a Tipsy Tow available if you overdo it. Calling for a cab or walking home, if possible, are good options, too.
This year, we're straying from Veuve Clicquot Brut Yellow Label NV ($36-$50). It's been our standard champagne for special occasions. I still enjoy this champagne very much for its creamy, apple and citrus taste. But today I had the chance to sample a couple new ones at Total Wine. We came away with two new sparklers to celebrate. One is reasonable ($15); the other moderate ($35).
Santi Nello Conegliano Valdobbiadene Prosecco ($15-$16). Light and crisp, with citrus notes. Decent for the price.
Champagne De Margerie Grand Cru Brut ($35-$40). Notes of berry, as it's made primarily with pinot noir.
Sharing some of my favorite sparkling drinks and some that were mentioned recently by experts. Mine:
Sofia Blanc de Blancs ($15-$20). A coworker introduced me to this one, and I love it especially for the price. It is indeed fruity and refreshing, as noted in the product promotion. Hints of apple and pear. And it's in a pretty pink cellophane wrap.
Perrier-Jouet Grand Brut NV($30-$45). I tried it just because the gift set looked pretty at Costco. I found it crisp and refreshing. I recall apple and citrus notes.
LaMarca Prosecco DOC ($12-$16). Also crisp, and a bit sweet, but not too sweet. Notes of apple and grapefruit, with lemony finish.
Some expert suggestions, which I've not tried:
From Mark Tarbell's column on holiday gifts in The Arizona Republic/azcentral.com: GH Mumm "Cordon Rouge" NV, Reims, Champagne, France ($30-$38). 88 point.
From Mark Tarbell's column on holiday drinks in The Arizona Republic/azcentral.com: Mionetto Prosecco D.O.C. Brut, Treviso, Italy ($11-$13): 87 points.
From The Today Show segment on picking holiday wines: Flor Prosecco, Italy ($15).
BTW, prices noted are ones I've seen in stores or online.
Cheers!
Friday, December 30, 2011
Thursday, December 29, 2011
Resolution time! Or not...
Every year, I find myself thinking of the same resolution: Eat healthy, exercise more, reduce stress. And every year I see no real change.
I started telling myself, "Just say NO to resolutions." Year after year, I'd feel terrible about dropping the ball on so many worthy life changes. So, why not set an ideal? If I didn't do it all, it's just an ideal. My "ideal" for the last few years has been to live better. That's easy to say and do at least part of the time. I did live better in January, April and June. What excuse do I have for the other times? Laziness, too much work stress, too much kid stress??? How would I do right by ME?
After reading business book "Execution: The Discipline of Getting Things Done" (Larry Bossidy and Ram Charan), I figured I needed to set up realistic quarterly goals for my life (it is MY business). So here goes my first quarter plan (still need to figure out the rest of the year) to live better with less stress:
-Sort through kids clothes and toys at least quarterly, but ideally after any purchase. Donate or dump items no longer needed. This will help me help them keep their rooms cleaner, reducing my need to yell at them to clean their rooms.
-Keep a better inventory of holiday decorations. Sticking a note in the bin is of no help when you come across a sale and later learn you have duplicates. Keep list on computer for easy access. Also, toss out broken or burnt out items yearly to prevent wasting time. Remove those items from your inventory.
-Don't buy anything unless it's a need, even if the sale is amazing. Wants must be evaluated for overall value. Remember, too much stuff creates clutter. Clutter creates messes, and messes create stress.
-Value experience over things. Things clutter our home; photos of our experiences only clutter our computer.
-Stop getting take out and reduce dining out. We can eat healthier if we don't chow down on high fat, high sodium foods.
-Plan out meals. Cook in advance and freeze if necessary. This will prevent the urge to get takeout or to eat cereal for dinner.
-Plan exercise around socializing. Take evening walks with husband or kids. Put these walks on your schedule. Plan to attend yoga or kick boxing with friends to keep you from making an excuse not to go.
Maybe I'll add a few more items. And maybe I should start now...
Cheers!
I started telling myself, "Just say NO to resolutions." Year after year, I'd feel terrible about dropping the ball on so many worthy life changes. So, why not set an ideal? If I didn't do it all, it's just an ideal. My "ideal" for the last few years has been to live better. That's easy to say and do at least part of the time. I did live better in January, April and June. What excuse do I have for the other times? Laziness, too much work stress, too much kid stress??? How would I do right by ME?
After reading business book "Execution: The Discipline of Getting Things Done" (Larry Bossidy and Ram Charan), I figured I needed to set up realistic quarterly goals for my life (it is MY business). So here goes my first quarter plan (still need to figure out the rest of the year) to live better with less stress:
-Sort through kids clothes and toys at least quarterly, but ideally after any purchase. Donate or dump items no longer needed. This will help me help them keep their rooms cleaner, reducing my need to yell at them to clean their rooms.
-Keep a better inventory of holiday decorations. Sticking a note in the bin is of no help when you come across a sale and later learn you have duplicates. Keep list on computer for easy access. Also, toss out broken or burnt out items yearly to prevent wasting time. Remove those items from your inventory.
-Don't buy anything unless it's a need, even if the sale is amazing. Wants must be evaluated for overall value. Remember, too much stuff creates clutter. Clutter creates messes, and messes create stress.
-Value experience over things. Things clutter our home; photos of our experiences only clutter our computer.
-Stop getting take out and reduce dining out. We can eat healthier if we don't chow down on high fat, high sodium foods.
-Plan out meals. Cook in advance and freeze if necessary. This will prevent the urge to get takeout or to eat cereal for dinner.
-Plan exercise around socializing. Take evening walks with husband or kids. Put these walks on your schedule. Plan to attend yoga or kick boxing with friends to keep you from making an excuse not to go.
Maybe I'll add a few more items. And maybe I should start now...
Cheers!
Thursday, December 8, 2011
Gingerbread House event, Dec. 10
Got this event notice from Roy's Hawaiian Fusion Cuisine in my email today. I'm sharing it because I took my daughter to this event at the Roy's in Chandler back a few years back, and she had a ton of fun chatting up the other kids and decorating her gingerbread house.
I know the cost ($25 per child) can be a bit much for families on a tight budget. It is a splurge, but I justified it by thinking my house isn't getting messy and I'd pay about $10 for a kit anyway that doesn't have as many candies. Plus lunch is provided. Too bad they don't sell those discounted Roy's gift cards at Costco anymore. Well, I haven't seen them in a year. :(
I'll call in the morning to see if you must buy lunch or if you can just watch.
Keiki Gingerbread Event
12 p.m., Saturday, December 10, 2011
7151 West Ray Road, Chandler
Lunch will be served first, followed by decorating
Cost: $25 per Keiki, includes lunch and gingerbread supplies; $25 per adult, includes 3-course lunch meal. Prices exclude tax and gratuity.
FYI: if you donate a new, unwrapped toy, you'll receive $5 off* your child's meal.
Reservations: (480) 705-7697.
*One $5 discount per Keiki. All children must be accompanied by a parent or guardian over the age of 18.
For more holiday kid fun, check out azcentral.com's Things to Do section.
I'll call in the morning to see if you must buy lunch or if you can just watch.
Keiki Gingerbread Event
12 p.m., Saturday, December 10, 2011
7151 West Ray Road, Chandler
Lunch will be served first, followed by decorating
Cost: $25 per Keiki, includes lunch and gingerbread supplies; $25 per adult, includes 3-course lunch meal. Prices exclude tax and gratuity.
FYI: if you donate a new, unwrapped toy, you'll receive $5 off* your child's meal.
Reservations: (480) 705-7697.
*One $5 discount per Keiki. All children must be accompanied by a parent or guardian over the age of 18.
For more holiday kid fun, check out azcentral.com's Things to Do section.
Tuesday, December 6, 2011
I'm dreaming of a White Christmas...
I love watching Christmas movies, musicals and concerts. While some are better than others, they lift my spirit and get me into a holiday mood. Maybe it's because these stories unfolding on stage and screen remind me of my childhood -- hot cocoa and snowmen in the Midwest; celebrating snow flurries in the Southwest.
We try to catch some kind of holiday show every year. This year, I was given a chance to review Irving Berlin's "White Christmas," which run through Dec. 11 at ASU Gammage in Tempe. As it started, I thought that I made a mistake bringing my kids. It would be too old fashioned, and too slow. Maybe too much singing and, oh no, tap dancing. They are 11 and 14 and everything we suggest is just so not cool.
But they surprised me. They liked it, even the tap dancing. They also told me in the car that they'd recommend it to friends. What? Guess my kids like to go back to a time when life was simpler and a good tap dance number made people happy. Side note: I did overhear a middle-age couple complain that they were falling asleep during the first half. It wasn't that bad. But it is a slow-moving musical rom-com set in the 50's with a lot of dancing.
The stage show begins on Christmas Eve 1944. Two Army buddies, Bob Wallace and Phil Davis, are singing "Happy Holidays" to cheer up the troops serving in World War II. They are hams heading home and their General is retiring. Fast forward 10 years and they are on the Ed Sullivan show, reprising "Happy Holidays" mashed with "Let Yourself Go" with a company of dancers dressed in soft pastels popular in 50's. The guys are hot performers gearing up to take their singing and dancing to sunny Florida. But before they leave for Miami, they check out a sister singing duo, Betty and Judy Haynes. It's love at first sight for flirty Judy and Phil, the lady's man. And it's awkward for Betty and Bob. The guys ask the girls to join their show, but they are on their way to a gig in Vermont. Phil has to stay with Judy, so he tricks Bob into going to Vermont with the girls. Happens, it's not snowing up there, which scares away the tourists wanting a white Christmas. After the guys learn the Inn is owned by their General, they devise a plan to put on a big show attracting a bunch of their company. There are some mixed messages, broken hearts and eventually a happy ending.
It's light and funny at times, with several jokes aimed at adults. My kids especially liked Ezekiel, the barn handyman who gave some comic relief by moving slowly and saying little, and when the guys sang "Sisters," fanning their feathers and one acted like a peacock, during a rehearsal that the girls purposely missed. My daughter sang along to White Christmas and loved watching the faux snow fall on the audience in the front rows.
"White Christmas" was splendid if you like taking a trip down yesteryear. Oh, and if you are a fan of TV show Nip/Tuck, like I am, you'll get to see Ruth Williamson take on the roll of singing and dancing inn manager Martha Watson. Loved her! Williamson played Mrs. Grubman, a plastic surgery loving wealthy socialite fond of Christian (Julian McMahon), on Nip/Tuck. Your tween may remember that she was also on an episode of Hannah Montana.
"White Christmas" is recommended for ages 5 and up, according to ASU Gammage's web site. Some things to know if you take little ones:
-There is some flirty talk, but it's not raunchy.
-Phil's ditzy, flirty friends dress sexy and hang on him, and in a sing/dance scene when the guys say they may be dress too sexy for a family show, they tell they they can be Christmas bells, then flip up their costumes, "for the kids."
-Martha jokes with the General that they are like a married couple, arguing all the time and no sex.
-The show is about 2 1/2 hours long, and there is a short intermission perfect for a bathroom break.
Great discussions topics for the ride home:
-There's a song called "Count Your Blessings Instead of Sheep." Share some of your blessings.
-Betty got mad at Bob because she thought he was going to do a mean thing to a friend. She thought that because she didn't have the full story. Have you had something similar happen to you. How did it make you feel and how did you deal with it?
-Have you ever tricked someone into doing something, as Phil did to Bob by taking him to Vermont? How did it turn out? Any lessons learned?
-Since the play is set post World War II, you can talk about American life and entertainment post war. Maybe bring up some historical references in the play. U.S. President Eisenhower, the Ed Sullivan Show and Italian dictator/fascist Benito Mussolini (his name is used in a not so nice reference to another) are mentioned and can be great starting points.
-Why not talk about tap dancing?
The list goes on and on... Tickets are still available for the remaining shows, as of early Wednesday morning. Prices start at $23.50.
Cheers!
We try to catch some kind of holiday show every year. This year, I was given a chance to review Irving Berlin's "White Christmas," which run through Dec. 11 at ASU Gammage in Tempe. As it started, I thought that I made a mistake bringing my kids. It would be too old fashioned, and too slow. Maybe too much singing and, oh no, tap dancing. They are 11 and 14 and everything we suggest is just so not cool.
But they surprised me. They liked it, even the tap dancing. They also told me in the car that they'd recommend it to friends. What? Guess my kids like to go back to a time when life was simpler and a good tap dance number made people happy. Side note: I did overhear a middle-age couple complain that they were falling asleep during the first half. It wasn't that bad. But it is a slow-moving musical rom-com set in the 50's with a lot of dancing.
The stage show begins on Christmas Eve 1944. Two Army buddies, Bob Wallace and Phil Davis, are singing "Happy Holidays" to cheer up the troops serving in World War II. They are hams heading home and their General is retiring. Fast forward 10 years and they are on the Ed Sullivan show, reprising "Happy Holidays" mashed with "Let Yourself Go" with a company of dancers dressed in soft pastels popular in 50's. The guys are hot performers gearing up to take their singing and dancing to sunny Florida. But before they leave for Miami, they check out a sister singing duo, Betty and Judy Haynes. It's love at first sight for flirty Judy and Phil, the lady's man. And it's awkward for Betty and Bob. The guys ask the girls to join their show, but they are on their way to a gig in Vermont. Phil has to stay with Judy, so he tricks Bob into going to Vermont with the girls. Happens, it's not snowing up there, which scares away the tourists wanting a white Christmas. After the guys learn the Inn is owned by their General, they devise a plan to put on a big show attracting a bunch of their company. There are some mixed messages, broken hearts and eventually a happy ending.
It's light and funny at times, with several jokes aimed at adults. My kids especially liked Ezekiel, the barn handyman who gave some comic relief by moving slowly and saying little, and when the guys sang "Sisters," fanning their feathers and one acted like a peacock, during a rehearsal that the girls purposely missed. My daughter sang along to White Christmas and loved watching the faux snow fall on the audience in the front rows.
"White Christmas" was splendid if you like taking a trip down yesteryear. Oh, and if you are a fan of TV show Nip/Tuck, like I am, you'll get to see Ruth Williamson take on the roll of singing and dancing inn manager Martha Watson. Loved her! Williamson played Mrs. Grubman, a plastic surgery loving wealthy socialite fond of Christian (Julian McMahon), on Nip/Tuck. Your tween may remember that she was also on an episode of Hannah Montana.
"White Christmas" is recommended for ages 5 and up, according to ASU Gammage's web site. Some things to know if you take little ones:
-There is some flirty talk, but it's not raunchy.
-Phil's ditzy, flirty friends dress sexy and hang on him, and in a sing/dance scene when the guys say they may be dress too sexy for a family show, they tell they they can be Christmas bells, then flip up their costumes, "for the kids."
-Martha jokes with the General that they are like a married couple, arguing all the time and no sex.
-The show is about 2 1/2 hours long, and there is a short intermission perfect for a bathroom break.
Great discussions topics for the ride home:
-There's a song called "Count Your Blessings Instead of Sheep." Share some of your blessings.
-Betty got mad at Bob because she thought he was going to do a mean thing to a friend. She thought that because she didn't have the full story. Have you had something similar happen to you. How did it make you feel and how did you deal with it?
-Have you ever tricked someone into doing something, as Phil did to Bob by taking him to Vermont? How did it turn out? Any lessons learned?
-Since the play is set post World War II, you can talk about American life and entertainment post war. Maybe bring up some historical references in the play. U.S. President Eisenhower, the Ed Sullivan Show and Italian dictator/fascist Benito Mussolini (his name is used in a not so nice reference to another) are mentioned and can be great starting points.
-Why not talk about tap dancing?
The list goes on and on... Tickets are still available for the remaining shows, as of early Wednesday morning. Prices start at $23.50.
Cheers!
Monday, December 5, 2011
Loss of beautiful soul leads to charity helping kids in need
Four years ago, a family friend lost her teenage daughter in a tragic accident. It was raining, and rural Missouri roads can flood quickly.
I remember praying that Carol's daughter would make it to her destination. Brooke was just 16. I cried knowing another mother's heart just shattered.
I held my kids tight that night. I don't know how I would handle such tragedy. Carol decided to honor Brooke's giving spirit. There were a couple of scholarships donated, but Carol and her older daughter, Lyndsey, wanted to help more people. That's how Soles from a Beautiful Soul, which collects shoes to help children in need, came to be. I wish it much success.
I'm so impressed by Carol's strength and generosity that I'm sharing her story. Please click on this link to read a recent article about the charity in Brooke's honor.
I remember praying that Carol's daughter would make it to her destination. Brooke was just 16. I cried knowing another mother's heart just shattered.
I held my kids tight that night. I don't know how I would handle such tragedy. Carol decided to honor Brooke's giving spirit. There were a couple of scholarships donated, but Carol and her older daughter, Lyndsey, wanted to help more people. That's how Soles from a Beautiful Soul, which collects shoes to help children in need, came to be. I wish it much success.
I'm so impressed by Carol's strength and generosity that I'm sharing her story. Please click on this link to read a recent article about the charity in Brooke's honor.
Wednesday, November 30, 2011
5 holiday time savers
It's frantic this time of year. Kids have projects due, while you have gifts to buy, parties to attend and people to entertain. And this is all on top of regular job/life duties.
Here's 5 lessons I've learned:
1. Label Christmas/holiday decoration boxes. We have about 20 boxes with lights, snowmen, wreaths, ornaments and more. Yes, my man loves Christmas. The labels will keep you from making a mess finding just where the heck you placed all those outdoor lights you bought on clearance. Or where you keep the stockings, ornament hooks, etc. Stay organized by returning all the items you pulled out in the right box. Otherwise, you'll be throwing a tantrum and wasting time looking next year. Plus, you'll need to clean up your mess after.
2. Just sign the card. I no longer worry about personalizing every holiday card. Believe me, most people are just happy you've remembered them. And if anyone complains about your lack of personalization, just ignore it. Why add to your stress? 'Tis the season to be jolly, not grumpy. Another option, get cards printed with a holiday greeting from your family. Photo cards are great because it feels a bit more special to get a picture. Plus, your names are already printed on the card. If you need to say more, I suppose you can consider a holiday letter. I'm not a fan. They take too much time.
3. Keep a list of addresses. In today's digital world, sometimes a physical address is forgotten. Take time one year to collect them, then send out an email or Facebook post asking friends to send you a private message if their address has changed from last year. The address list also can be used to make quick mailing labels.
4. Keep a to-do list. Yes, you might remember everything. But you might not. A list is helpful for remembering and planning ahead, saving you trips to the store. Besides, checking off things you've accomplished feels great. Remember to put down everything you need to do. That includes things like: pick up wine for party, wrap gifts, buy gift cards for teacher gifts, RSVP to neighbor's party, and buy supplies for class science project. Besides, being prepared reduces stress when your kid tells you that the science project is due tomorrow (you'll know because of the list) or you're running out the door to a party and NOT have to stop by the store.
5. Just say no. If it's too much to handle, don't feel like Scrooge for saying no. Stress can be terrible on your body, and slow you down when you don't have time to spare. So take care of yourself and your family first. Be gracious if you must decline a request, but be upfront and offer an alternate solution if you have one. "I'm sorry but I can't watch your kids while you shop, I'm already committed to a family event. But I know a great baby sitter looking to make some Christmas money." Or ..."Thanks for thinking of us. I've already made plans for that night. Let's plan to get together another time."
Cheers!
Here's 5 lessons I've learned:
1. Label Christmas/holiday decoration boxes. We have about 20 boxes with lights, snowmen, wreaths, ornaments and more. Yes, my man loves Christmas. The labels will keep you from making a mess finding just where the heck you placed all those outdoor lights you bought on clearance. Or where you keep the stockings, ornament hooks, etc. Stay organized by returning all the items you pulled out in the right box. Otherwise, you'll be throwing a tantrum and wasting time looking next year. Plus, you'll need to clean up your mess after.
2. Just sign the card. I no longer worry about personalizing every holiday card. Believe me, most people are just happy you've remembered them. And if anyone complains about your lack of personalization, just ignore it. Why add to your stress? 'Tis the season to be jolly, not grumpy. Another option, get cards printed with a holiday greeting from your family. Photo cards are great because it feels a bit more special to get a picture. Plus, your names are already printed on the card. If you need to say more, I suppose you can consider a holiday letter. I'm not a fan. They take too much time.
3. Keep a list of addresses. In today's digital world, sometimes a physical address is forgotten. Take time one year to collect them, then send out an email or Facebook post asking friends to send you a private message if their address has changed from last year. The address list also can be used to make quick mailing labels.
4. Keep a to-do list. Yes, you might remember everything. But you might not. A list is helpful for remembering and planning ahead, saving you trips to the store. Besides, checking off things you've accomplished feels great. Remember to put down everything you need to do. That includes things like: pick up wine for party, wrap gifts, buy gift cards for teacher gifts, RSVP to neighbor's party, and buy supplies for class science project. Besides, being prepared reduces stress when your kid tells you that the science project is due tomorrow (you'll know because of the list) or you're running out the door to a party and NOT have to stop by the store.
5. Just say no. If it's too much to handle, don't feel like Scrooge for saying no. Stress can be terrible on your body, and slow you down when you don't have time to spare. So take care of yourself and your family first. Be gracious if you must decline a request, but be upfront and offer an alternate solution if you have one. "I'm sorry but I can't watch your kids while you shop, I'm already committed to a family event. But I know a great baby sitter looking to make some Christmas money." Or ..."Thanks for thinking of us. I've already made plans for that night. Let's plan to get together another time."
Cheers!
Wednesday, November 16, 2011
Getting good seats to "Breaking Dawn Part One" without waiting in line
I generally avoid going to movies, especially ones with lots of hype, on opening weekend. Sometimes I luck out and happen to hit a theater without crazy lines of people waiting to save seats for all 20 of their friends.
However I will be at "Breaking Dawn Part One" opening weekend, making my tween crazy happy. She'll be able watch the Bella's and Edward's love become legal, and chat about it Monday at school.
I won't be camping out to grab decent seats. Nor will I be frustrated when half the theater is reserved for friends who won't show until just before the movie previews start to roll. That's because I have my center seats already reserved.
My secret? Well, I don't know any of the movie managers. I just bought my tickets from a showing at AMC Esplanade online. The dine-in theater lets customers select seats at the time of purchase. You just need to make sure to bring the credit card used on the purchase to the theater.
There is a warning to arrive 30 minutes early. I'll be testing that out this weekend. But with the dine-in option, it's wise to arrive early and place your order so that it's ready when the movie begins.
Cheers.
However I will be at "Breaking Dawn Part One" opening weekend, making my tween crazy happy. She'll be able watch the Bella's and Edward's love become legal, and chat about it Monday at school.
I won't be camping out to grab decent seats. Nor will I be frustrated when half the theater is reserved for friends who won't show until just before the movie previews start to roll. That's because I have my center seats already reserved.
My secret? Well, I don't know any of the movie managers. I just bought my tickets from a showing at AMC Esplanade online. The dine-in theater lets customers select seats at the time of purchase. You just need to make sure to bring the credit card used on the purchase to the theater.
There is a warning to arrive 30 minutes early. I'll be testing that out this weekend. But with the dine-in option, it's wise to arrive early and place your order so that it's ready when the movie begins.
Cheers.
Wednesday, November 2, 2011
Blue Man Group rocked
I'm a huge fan of taking kids to the theater. It's just magical seeing a good performance on stage.
Blue Man Group isn't exactly what I think of when theater is brought up. However, they are performing at ASU Gammage in Tempe through Nov. 6. They won't disappoint.
Audience participation begins before one Blue Man steps on stage. An electronic board acts as a humorous "voice" to get the audience engaged. The Blue Man Group's show features music, not voices. Electronic board message highlights included a reminder not to text because you make the older folks feel inadequate, oh, but tweeting is OK; a happy birthday wish to an audience member (no singing allowed) and a funny take on helping another get rid of a headache (think of it as a cow...and you kill it). My kids were practically falling out of their seats laughing. And as my son points out, it's hard to make him laugh.
The 90-minute techie-comedy-musical show was colorful, loud, bright, gross (briefly) and silly (a lot). It features lots of drumming, paint, Captain Crunch, texting, reading, paper, balls and CRAZY FUN MUSIC! Those guys can be quite humorous without saying anything.
My 11-year-old daughter noted some "inappropriate humor" for kids, but acknowledged that "little kids won't get it." Those jokes include the "hard" Viagra post on the GiPads (gigantic iPads), a quick message flashing about naked people and euphemisms for butts. Plenty of kids 5 and older were in the audience. I don't see myself having an issue with kids seeing the show. The bigger concern is if your kids are sensitive to strobe lights, sudden darkness and loud music. Only you know your kids.
Photo of Blue Man Group National Tour by ©Paul Kolnik.
My son's favorite part involved a chicken. I don't want to give the set up away. My daughter had several favorite parts, including a "texting" segment and rocking out to concert moves. She did ask why I didn't get closer seats. Turns out she was totally jealous of the folks in the front rows because the Blue Men walked around them finding audience participants. It didn't stop her from yelling pick me several times. So cute! Best of all, I loved that my kids couldn't stop talking about the show on the ride home.
Blue Man Group
Where: ASU Gammage, Tempe
When: Through Nov. 6. Showtimes vary.
Cost: $41.50-$105.70 (prices include fees).
FYI: There is no intermission.
Some discussion questions:
-How would you entertain your friends if you could not use your voice? Could you even stay quiet?
-What would you have done if you were picked to go on stage? Do you think kids would be funnier than the adults who were chosen?
-What music was your favorite? Did you notice how sounds changed when they changed the length of the pipe?
Let me know what you think if you go. Cheers!
Blue Man Group isn't exactly what I think of when theater is brought up. However, they are performing at ASU Gammage in Tempe through Nov. 6. They won't disappoint.
Audience participation begins before one Blue Man steps on stage. An electronic board acts as a humorous "voice" to get the audience engaged. The Blue Man Group's show features music, not voices. Electronic board message highlights included a reminder not to text because you make the older folks feel inadequate, oh, but tweeting is OK; a happy birthday wish to an audience member (no singing allowed) and a funny take on helping another get rid of a headache (think of it as a cow...and you kill it). My kids were practically falling out of their seats laughing. And as my son points out, it's hard to make him laugh.
The 90-minute techie-comedy-musical show was colorful, loud, bright, gross (briefly) and silly (a lot). It features lots of drumming, paint, Captain Crunch, texting, reading, paper, balls and CRAZY FUN MUSIC! Those guys can be quite humorous without saying anything.
Photo of Blue Man Group National Tour by ©Paul Kolnik.
My son's favorite part involved a chicken. I don't want to give the set up away. My daughter had several favorite parts, including a "texting" segment and rocking out to concert moves. She did ask why I didn't get closer seats. Turns out she was totally jealous of the folks in the front rows because the Blue Men walked around them finding audience participants. It didn't stop her from yelling pick me several times. So cute! Best of all, I loved that my kids couldn't stop talking about the show on the ride home.
Blue Man Group
Where: ASU Gammage, Tempe
When: Through Nov. 6. Showtimes vary.
Cost: $41.50-$105.70 (prices include fees).
FYI: There is no intermission.
Some discussion questions:
-How would you entertain your friends if you could not use your voice? Could you even stay quiet?
-What would you have done if you were picked to go on stage? Do you think kids would be funnier than the adults who were chosen?
-What music was your favorite? Did you notice how sounds changed when they changed the length of the pipe?
Let me know what you think if you go. Cheers!
Tuesday, November 1, 2011
Still wishing for that extra hour in the day
I seriously thought not working the regular 40-hour grind would mean I'd get a lot more home projects done and have much more time with my kids. Umm, not true. Maybe it's because I am looking for work, and it's not like that doesn't take time.
But I fantasized that I'd have a perfect home by now, at least half a manuscript done (isn't every journalist a wannabe novelist?) and so many mom-son/mom-daughter days under my belt that my kids would tell me to leave them alone. I'm not quite as far along as I hoped. It just seems something always comes up to wreck my plans. Or maybe I'm wasting too much time catching up on things I didn't have time to do, like read, watch TV, exercise, cook (not buy take-out), dance with my daughter, etc. Is it really wasting time? Or am I finally making time for me?
I have managed to cross off some home organization projects. I won't feel embarrassed if someone just drops in...well, unless they see my kids' rooms or my garage. And I've been much more on top of homework. I don't think some teachers like me now. Kidding...maybe. I just wanted more done.
I don't know why I question my time spent. I know many moms who do the same thing. But I'm no Peggy Bundy. I'm not eating candy and watching daytime TV while the kids are in school. Reading more will help me with my book. Lunch with friends will possibly lead to that next great job. Exercising keeps me healthy. And an active weekend is good for all of us, and it keeps the house from getting messed up!
Still, I pray for an extra hour. I ask myself if I'd use it for tackling another project. Nope. I'd use it for sleep and me time. So why am I complaining?
But I fantasized that I'd have a perfect home by now, at least half a manuscript done (isn't every journalist a wannabe novelist?) and so many mom-son/mom-daughter days under my belt that my kids would tell me to leave them alone. I'm not quite as far along as I hoped. It just seems something always comes up to wreck my plans. Or maybe I'm wasting too much time catching up on things I didn't have time to do, like read, watch TV, exercise, cook (not buy take-out), dance with my daughter, etc. Is it really wasting time? Or am I finally making time for me?
I have managed to cross off some home organization projects. I won't feel embarrassed if someone just drops in...well, unless they see my kids' rooms or my garage. And I've been much more on top of homework. I don't think some teachers like me now. Kidding...maybe. I just wanted more done.
I don't know why I question my time spent. I know many moms who do the same thing. But I'm no Peggy Bundy. I'm not eating candy and watching daytime TV while the kids are in school. Reading more will help me with my book. Lunch with friends will possibly lead to that next great job. Exercising keeps me healthy. And an active weekend is good for all of us, and it keeps the house from getting messed up!
Still, I pray for an extra hour. I ask myself if I'd use it for tackling another project. Nope. I'd use it for sleep and me time. So why am I complaining?
Monday, September 19, 2011
Culture Pass: Save time in line by going online
Just a quick tip for moms in the Phoenix area who like to snag those Culture Passes at the library: You can check if they are available at various library locations online. That way you don't go early in the morning to stand in line before anyone else arrives for a Zoo pass only to find out it's not available at your nearest library, but two are available at the branch across town.
I just checked and know at my library zoo passes are NOT available for check out today. And if I want to go to the Children's Museum of Phoenix, I'd have to go to another in-town library. However, I know there is one pass for the Arizona Science Center and two for the Desert Botanical Garden at my library. So if those are on my list, I can take a gamble that they'll be there if I arrive early.
Checking online first is a great time (and money - gasoline isn't cheap) saver because at least you know what possible passes you can get. It's still a gamble whether you'll get the one you really want since some other mom or dad may get in line before you.
If you're wondering, what's the big deal about the Culture Pass? The pass is essentially two free admissions to participating museums and other arts/cultural experiences in the Phoenix area. Free in this economy equals awesome! Library card holders who check out the passes have a week to pop in for a visit. Borrowing on Monday doesn't mean you have to go that day. That's huge when you never know if your plan will work out.
BTW, I must thank my friend KD for sharing this tidbit with me. :)
Cheers!
I just checked and know at my library zoo passes are NOT available for check out today. And if I want to go to the Children's Museum of Phoenix, I'd have to go to another in-town library. However, I know there is one pass for the Arizona Science Center and two for the Desert Botanical Garden at my library. So if those are on my list, I can take a gamble that they'll be there if I arrive early.
Checking online first is a great time (and money - gasoline isn't cheap) saver because at least you know what possible passes you can get. It's still a gamble whether you'll get the one you really want since some other mom or dad may get in line before you.
If you're wondering, what's the big deal about the Culture Pass? The pass is essentially two free admissions to participating museums and other arts/cultural experiences in the Phoenix area. Free in this economy equals awesome! Library card holders who check out the passes have a week to pop in for a visit. Borrowing on Monday doesn't mean you have to go that day. That's huge when you never know if your plan will work out.
BTW, I must thank my friend KD for sharing this tidbit with me. :)
Cheers!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Theater: Strike up lively chats with your children
I love the theater. I don't always go because it can be expensive, well, that is if you want really good orchestra seats. But even from the less expensive balcony seats, it's so magical seeing performers on stage.
I've been blessed to take my kids to a few shows. We started with children's theater as little ones. We felt it was important to expose them to all kinds of performing arts from a young age. Not only is it entertaining, it's also great ways to strike up meaningful conversations. Bonus: They learn to behave in public.
I remember taking the kids to "Lion King" at ASU Gammage a few years back. My daughter and I were with her Girl Scout troop in more expensive seats, while my husband and son watched from another budget friendly section. At intermission, the kids talked about how beautiful the sets and costumes were and how the story differed from the Disney movie. As a parent, it was wonderful watching their eyes light up and talk to each other. No fighting!
We found some theater material great for bigger discussions. I remember at "Grease," which played at the Dodge (now Comerica) Theatre, my son leaned over and commented on the teen behavior. We discussed smoking, teen sex, peer pressure and the 50s. Instead of talking AT my kids about how I feel about these things, we talked WITH them. They asked questions and shared their feelings about how the show was presented. I quickly learned my son did not like "Grease" because he didn't agree with the teen behavior. My daughter loved it because of the music, and chalked up the teen behavior as just a way to draw in people to the show. Hmmm.
I'm excited about this 2011-2012 theater season at ASU Gammage because of so many wonderful choices for families. We keep discussing "West Side Story," which runs Sept. 27-Oct. 2. My kids have seen part of the movie version. My daughter loves the songs. And the story opens up plenty of conversations about prejudice, rivalries, gangs and immigration. The venue's recommended age for this is 13 and up.
Another seemingly good one for a chat about war and prejudice is Rodgers & Hammerstein's "South Pacific," playing Jan. 10-15, 2012. I've not seen it yet, but it's on my list. Venue recommends 8 and up.
We've already seen "Stomp" as a family. I recommend it, particularly if your family is new to theater. It's engaging and your kids will clap and stomp along as performers created music using pipes, sinks, grocery bags, newspaper, street signs, lighters, brooms, cans, and more. Click the link to an old blog I wrote back in 2009. Maybe a post Christmas treat? It comes to ASU Gammage Dec. 28-31, 2011.
Another I recommend for older kids is "Wicked," which runs Feb. 15-March 11, 2012 at ASU Gammage. The story is about how Glinda the Good and the Wicked Witch of the West from "The Wizard of Oz" come to be. Topics of discussion include popularity/mean girls, judging people by their skin color, friendship, standing up for beliefs, political manipulation and media spin, sibling relations, social barriers, etc. Check out an old review blog of mine by clicking the above link.
Others with family friendly potential coming to ASU Gammage: Blue Man Group, Nov. 1-6, looks like a lot of fun for the whole family. And Irvin Berlin's "White Christmas," Dec. 6-11, seems like a perfect treat for the holidays. "Million Dollar Quartet," June 5-10, 2012, sounds like it will be fun for music lovers of all ages.
Gotta check out schedules for other venues now. Cheers!
I've been blessed to take my kids to a few shows. We started with children's theater as little ones. We felt it was important to expose them to all kinds of performing arts from a young age. Not only is it entertaining, it's also great ways to strike up meaningful conversations. Bonus: They learn to behave in public.
I remember taking the kids to "Lion King" at ASU Gammage a few years back. My daughter and I were with her Girl Scout troop in more expensive seats, while my husband and son watched from another budget friendly section. At intermission, the kids talked about how beautiful the sets and costumes were and how the story differed from the Disney movie. As a parent, it was wonderful watching their eyes light up and talk to each other. No fighting!
We found some theater material great for bigger discussions. I remember at "Grease," which played at the Dodge (now Comerica) Theatre, my son leaned over and commented on the teen behavior. We discussed smoking, teen sex, peer pressure and the 50s. Instead of talking AT my kids about how I feel about these things, we talked WITH them. They asked questions and shared their feelings about how the show was presented. I quickly learned my son did not like "Grease" because he didn't agree with the teen behavior. My daughter loved it because of the music, and chalked up the teen behavior as just a way to draw in people to the show. Hmmm.
I'm excited about this 2011-2012 theater season at ASU Gammage because of so many wonderful choices for families. We keep discussing "West Side Story," which runs Sept. 27-Oct. 2. My kids have seen part of the movie version. My daughter loves the songs. And the story opens up plenty of conversations about prejudice, rivalries, gangs and immigration. The venue's recommended age for this is 13 and up.
Another seemingly good one for a chat about war and prejudice is Rodgers & Hammerstein's "South Pacific," playing Jan. 10-15, 2012. I've not seen it yet, but it's on my list. Venue recommends 8 and up.
We've already seen "Stomp" as a family. I recommend it, particularly if your family is new to theater. It's engaging and your kids will clap and stomp along as performers created music using pipes, sinks, grocery bags, newspaper, street signs, lighters, brooms, cans, and more. Click the link to an old blog I wrote back in 2009. Maybe a post Christmas treat? It comes to ASU Gammage Dec. 28-31, 2011.
Another I recommend for older kids is "Wicked," which runs Feb. 15-March 11, 2012 at ASU Gammage. The story is about how Glinda the Good and the Wicked Witch of the West from "The Wizard of Oz" come to be. Topics of discussion include popularity/mean girls, judging people by their skin color, friendship, standing up for beliefs, political manipulation and media spin, sibling relations, social barriers, etc. Check out an old review blog of mine by clicking the above link.
Others with family friendly potential coming to ASU Gammage: Blue Man Group, Nov. 1-6, looks like a lot of fun for the whole family. And Irvin Berlin's "White Christmas," Dec. 6-11, seems like a perfect treat for the holidays. "Million Dollar Quartet," June 5-10, 2012, sounds like it will be fun for music lovers of all ages.
Gotta check out schedules for other venues now. Cheers!
Wednesday, September 7, 2011
Scary how well you know me (sometimes)
I've not bought much online lately. But I did opt to buy my kids a few of the Harry Potter books that they've been wanting to read. The library waits when students are reading for AR points don't always work out with the testing (um, grading) deadlines.
It's so amazing (and scary) still, even with all the media and social networking experience I have, how quickly retailers can customize recommendations for ME. In my inbox today, I have recommended reads for middle school students. It probably doesn't help that I bought "Lemonade Mouth" on DVD for my daughter. Guess my purchases scream "pre-teen in the house."
What's amazing (or sad or scary) is how predictable I really am. If I buy X, then I'm likely to buy Y. Well, sometimes I guess that's true. I do still get emails that don't apply because I looked something up for a gift or just was comparison shopping before heading to a bricks-and-mortar store. Those recommendations get trashed, but often so do the ones that are more fitting.
I've never really cared for a computerize program guessing what I could possibly want based on what I've bought because it makes me feel as though I'm no longer unique or special. So I try to defy those expectations...so you think I'll like X, well then I'll try something else. And then another recommendation. Ugh.
I also don't like when assumptions are made based on my name or age. I get a lot of bilingual offers, many starting in Spanish. I'm sure I'll be getting more retirement planning solicitation, as my husband did once he turned 40. Sigh.
Wonder what purchases will be recommended next?
Cheers.
It's so amazing (and scary) still, even with all the media and social networking experience I have, how quickly retailers can customize recommendations for ME. In my inbox today, I have recommended reads for middle school students. It probably doesn't help that I bought "Lemonade Mouth" on DVD for my daughter. Guess my purchases scream "pre-teen in the house."
What's amazing (or sad or scary) is how predictable I really am. If I buy X, then I'm likely to buy Y. Well, sometimes I guess that's true. I do still get emails that don't apply because I looked something up for a gift or just was comparison shopping before heading to a bricks-and-mortar store. Those recommendations get trashed, but often so do the ones that are more fitting.
I've never really cared for a computerize program guessing what I could possibly want based on what I've bought because it makes me feel as though I'm no longer unique or special. So I try to defy those expectations...so you think I'll like X, well then I'll try something else. And then another recommendation. Ugh.
I also don't like when assumptions are made based on my name or age. I get a lot of bilingual offers, many starting in Spanish. I'm sure I'll be getting more retirement planning solicitation, as my husband did once he turned 40. Sigh.
Wonder what purchases will be recommended next?
Cheers.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Decluttering = Happiness
A benefit of being laid off is having a bit of time to do things that I never made time to do when juggling kids and career. High on my list: decluttering.
Decluttering took a back seat when I worked. I just found space for my new stuff. And so long as a room didn't look anywhere near as scary as anything on "Hoarders," I was OK with it.
It's not that I didn't ever declutter. I'd regularly get rid of stuff, but I still hung on to plenty. And every weekend I'd dust and polish all those things that I don't use when I could be doing something a bit more fun with my kids.
So now that I have my online job-seeking routine down, I'm making a sweep of each room and saying GOOD-BYE! And you know, it's making me happy.
My donations include fake plants, trees, decorative pillows, knick-knacks and books. Haven't tackled the DVDs, but at least they are all nicely organized and are still entertaining to the kids. I'm also recycling a lot of magazines kept for recipes or projects I'm never going to do, so why pretend?
I've found these questions helpful when I start a room purge:
1. Does this room really need this item? Does it have a purpose?
2. If it doesn't, why do I have it? Am I emotionally attached? Think it's cool?
3. If it's unnecessary, could it be useful to someone else?
4. Will I ever use this again or is this just taking up space?
5. Is this item too old, worn out, broken? Why do I keep it?
6. Does looking at this stress me out?
The two rooms that I've tackled so far make me feel relaxed. Too much stuff had me stressing, as well as eating up my precious time cleaning.
Tackling the office will be a bite, but I look forward to the challenge.
Cheers!
Decluttering took a back seat when I worked. I just found space for my new stuff. And so long as a room didn't look anywhere near as scary as anything on "Hoarders," I was OK with it.
It's not that I didn't ever declutter. I'd regularly get rid of stuff, but I still hung on to plenty. And every weekend I'd dust and polish all those things that I don't use when I could be doing something a bit more fun with my kids.
So now that I have my online job-seeking routine down, I'm making a sweep of each room and saying GOOD-BYE! And you know, it's making me happy.
My donations include fake plants, trees, decorative pillows, knick-knacks and books. Haven't tackled the DVDs, but at least they are all nicely organized and are still entertaining to the kids. I'm also recycling a lot of magazines kept for recipes or projects I'm never going to do, so why pretend?
I've found these questions helpful when I start a room purge:
1. Does this room really need this item? Does it have a purpose?
2. If it doesn't, why do I have it? Am I emotionally attached? Think it's cool?
3. If it's unnecessary, could it be useful to someone else?
4. Will I ever use this again or is this just taking up space?
5. Is this item too old, worn out, broken? Why do I keep it?
6. Does looking at this stress me out?
The two rooms that I've tackled so far make me feel relaxed. Too much stuff had me stressing, as well as eating up my precious time cleaning.
Tackling the office will be a bite, but I look forward to the challenge.
Cheers!
Monday, August 22, 2011
Avoiding the Halloween sexy costume battle
Halloween is still two months away, and stores are telling us it's time to make decisions about costumes and decorations.
I always think this time of year that I should make a costume. Now is the time to start so you aren't left rushed. And then I don't. Sometimes it's because I found a crazy cheap costume the year before and HAVE to use it. But mostly I fear I'm not talented enough to make something that looks fit for public display.
Besides the potential for a totally awesome, original costume, a huge benefit of sewing is we can better control how our kids look at Halloween parties and while trick-or-treating. Maybe next year...
I don't worry about my son's choices. He never picks anything too violent. But with my daughter, now that's she's becoming a young woman, I worry about sexy.
This year she plans to dress like a rock diva. Got the basic rocker costume last year on sale. It isn't sexy compared with all the other costumes out there. The only question I have is will her belly show too much this year? If it does, I'm getting out the glue gun and adding some fringe and possibly making her wear a tank underneath. She still listens. But I wonder if things will change in junior high and high school. Remember those days of changing the clothes you left the house in?
As they get older, their size factors into the costumes available. Some tall and more full-figured 10 to 14 year olds, find themselves shopping for clothes in the junior department. Halloween is no different. And teen costumes aren't exactly modest. Maybe they offer more coverage compared to the sexy adult lines, but exposed bellies and short skirts are common.
Last year, I spoke with Debbie Easley of Easley's Fun Shop in central Phoenix. She pointed out how they make sure to carry teen options with longer skirts and less skin. She's a mom and knows the battle well. So it's no surprise that Easley and her staff also suggest to add leggings or tanks if too much skin still shows. The problem is many girls, once they no longer fit kid sizes, want to wear the adult costumes. And moms do give in. Click the link to read the story I wrote.
Tweens and teens look for costumes that make them look edgy and cute. And we start worrying about just who will see our little girls dressed this way and what will this look convey? Hopefully not sexy!
So what do you do? Some things I've done:
-Talk to your kids about personal safety in a loving, age-appropriate way. You don't want instant conflict. Sometimes understanding where your concern comes from helps them make the right choice. You want them to keep the costume they left with and not changing into something sexier later, right?
-Set an expectation and limits from the start. For example, you can pick any costume that isn't scary and doesn't bare your belly.
-If the costume is too skimpy but you both agree it's cute, consider leggings, bike shorts or tank top to limit exposure.
Here's hoping you don't have too huge a costume battle. Cheers!
I always think this time of year that I should make a costume. Now is the time to start so you aren't left rushed. And then I don't. Sometimes it's because I found a crazy cheap costume the year before and HAVE to use it. But mostly I fear I'm not talented enough to make something that looks fit for public display.
Besides the potential for a totally awesome, original costume, a huge benefit of sewing is we can better control how our kids look at Halloween parties and while trick-or-treating. Maybe next year...
I don't worry about my son's choices. He never picks anything too violent. But with my daughter, now that's she's becoming a young woman, I worry about sexy.
This year she plans to dress like a rock diva. Got the basic rocker costume last year on sale. It isn't sexy compared with all the other costumes out there. The only question I have is will her belly show too much this year? If it does, I'm getting out the glue gun and adding some fringe and possibly making her wear a tank underneath. She still listens. But I wonder if things will change in junior high and high school. Remember those days of changing the clothes you left the house in?
As they get older, their size factors into the costumes available. Some tall and more full-figured 10 to 14 year olds, find themselves shopping for clothes in the junior department. Halloween is no different. And teen costumes aren't exactly modest. Maybe they offer more coverage compared to the sexy adult lines, but exposed bellies and short skirts are common.
Last year, I spoke with Debbie Easley of Easley's Fun Shop in central Phoenix. She pointed out how they make sure to carry teen options with longer skirts and less skin. She's a mom and knows the battle well. So it's no surprise that Easley and her staff also suggest to add leggings or tanks if too much skin still shows. The problem is many girls, once they no longer fit kid sizes, want to wear the adult costumes. And moms do give in. Click the link to read the story I wrote.
Tweens and teens look for costumes that make them look edgy and cute. And we start worrying about just who will see our little girls dressed this way and what will this look convey? Hopefully not sexy!
So what do you do? Some things I've done:
-Talk to your kids about personal safety in a loving, age-appropriate way. You don't want instant conflict. Sometimes understanding where your concern comes from helps them make the right choice. You want them to keep the costume they left with and not changing into something sexier later, right?
-Set an expectation and limits from the start. For example, you can pick any costume that isn't scary and doesn't bare your belly.
-If the costume is too skimpy but you both agree it's cute, consider leggings, bike shorts or tank top to limit exposure.
Here's hoping you don't have too huge a costume battle. Cheers!
Friday, August 5, 2011
Getting my kids to eat a healthy breakfast
I'm tackling our eating habits. All of us are in our "normal" weight range, and I want to keep us there. But weight doesn't equal healthy, so I'm really focusing on better food choices: more veggies, more fiber, antioxidants, omega fatty acids, whole grains and healthy fats.
My first goal is improving breakfast. I want to have my kids ready for learning, but mornings can be rough. Rushed, we sometimes chose to pour a bowl of sugary cereal or grab some toaster pastry. Yes, we had left over spaghetti the other day. And I've done pizza, sandwiches and trail mix.
I often feel guilty about these "bad" breakfast days, some worse nutritionally than others. With a little planning, though, I know breakfast can be fast and healthy.
My time-saving tip is a no-brainer. Just add more healthy foods to the grocery list and less of the sugary "quick" foods. I can't tell you how many times I've thought, if only we had some yogurt, bananas, whole-grain bread or eggs. Really! Those should have been on the list. Instead, our bags are willed with "convenience" foods. Those breakfast pockets/sandwiches may seem like a good quick idea until you read the nutrition label.
Today I had time to scrambled up some eggs so they'd be filled up on protein for Friday quizzes. But for rushed days, I'm looking forward to serving up yogurt and berries, a nutrient-rich spinach-banana-berry-nutty smoothie (courtesy of my brother in law), hard boiled eggs (ready to go in the fridge) with fruit or waffles with natural peanut butter and sliced bananas.
For days when I have a bit more time, I can whip up pancakes with ground flax seeds for a fiber boost. Ham, cheese and broccoli omelets are big hits, too, so long there aren't any stems. I'm looking at recipes for French toast using whole grain, fiber-fortified bread, and breakfast pizzas — some fruity and some packed with veggies.
What are some of your favorite quick & healthy breakfasts?
Sharing a clip from the Today Show that offers some great ideas for feeding your kids at all times of the day. I do turkey roll-ups all the time in my daughter's lunch, but without the tortilla:
Cheers!
My first goal is improving breakfast. I want to have my kids ready for learning, but mornings can be rough. Rushed, we sometimes chose to pour a bowl of sugary cereal or grab some toaster pastry. Yes, we had left over spaghetti the other day. And I've done pizza, sandwiches and trail mix.
I often feel guilty about these "bad" breakfast days, some worse nutritionally than others. With a little planning, though, I know breakfast can be fast and healthy.
My time-saving tip is a no-brainer. Just add more healthy foods to the grocery list and less of the sugary "quick" foods. I can't tell you how many times I've thought, if only we had some yogurt, bananas, whole-grain bread or eggs. Really! Those should have been on the list. Instead, our bags are willed with "convenience" foods. Those breakfast pockets/sandwiches may seem like a good quick idea until you read the nutrition label.
Today I had time to scrambled up some eggs so they'd be filled up on protein for Friday quizzes. But for rushed days, I'm looking forward to serving up yogurt and berries, a nutrient-rich spinach-banana-berry-nutty smoothie (courtesy of my brother in law), hard boiled eggs (ready to go in the fridge) with fruit or waffles with natural peanut butter and sliced bananas.
For days when I have a bit more time, I can whip up pancakes with ground flax seeds for a fiber boost. Ham, cheese and broccoli omelets are big hits, too, so long there aren't any stems. I'm looking at recipes for French toast using whole grain, fiber-fortified bread, and breakfast pizzas — some fruity and some packed with veggies.
What are some of your favorite quick & healthy breakfasts?
Sharing a clip from the Today Show that offers some great ideas for feeding your kids at all times of the day. I do turkey roll-ups all the time in my daughter's lunch, but without the tortilla:
Visit msnbc.com for breaking news, world news, and news about the economy
Cheers!
Thursday, August 4, 2011
Katy Perry California Dreams excitement
As soon as my daughter got home yesterday, she knew she needed to tackle homework. And of all nights, she had the biggest bunch to do.
No way she'd get through it all before going to the Katy Perry concert. Her distracted mind would keep her from completing it all. Yet, I didn't mind. It's not like we go to concerts all the time. It's early in the school year. Most importantly, she's a good student so a night off every now and then isn't going to be detrimental.
I think we would have been on our way to the 7:30 p.m. show at 4 p.m. if she had her way. She didn't want to miss a moment.
When Katy Perry finally took the stage at 9:13 p.m., my daughter understood why I wasn't in a rush. She also realized she wouldn't be home until midnight — much later than the kiddie-centric concerts we've gone to in the past. That's the only time I felt a bit of regret bringing her. I don't want a grumpy sleepy girl annoying teachers at school. I'm already asking for leniency on the half-finished homework.
Surprisingly, she's full of energy this morning. She's still on the concert high, and I hope she doesn't crash midday. She sang at the top of her lungs to all the popular songs, as well as lesser know songs. One of our favorites is "Pearl" because the end message is you don't define yourself by how others make you feel. Be strong and be yourself. Guess that's why we also love "Firework."
The concert wasn't as naughty as it could have been, so I really didn't have to explain much. It was sugary fun and a little sexy, but not so shocking that I'd blush since I have sixth grader to my side.
Still, I didn't get why so many moms brought their really little ones. Sure the sexy innuendo and explicit words goes over their head, but it's loud and hard to see when you are that small. Maybe they had ear plugs and moms had strong arms to carry them. My personal feeling is the show is best for 10 and older.
All the songs were so much candy-coated fun. We also loved her Katy-oke part of the show, where she sings other songs, including Rebecca Black's "Friday," Rihanna's "Only Girl," and Willow Smith's "Whip My Hair." She was silly and at the same time showed she can sing. She's not all music marketing. When she went "church," she showed how soulful and strong a voice she has.
We danced in our seats and had a great time. The only downer was at the end when suddenly my daughter wanted a T-shirt to remember the show. Ummm, no. The only
one we liked was $50 and since I don't know when my next paying gig will come up, I figure the pictures and video are good enough.
Looking forward to our next girls night out.
Cheers!
No way she'd get through it all before going to the Katy Perry concert. Her distracted mind would keep her from completing it all. Yet, I didn't mind. It's not like we go to concerts all the time. It's early in the school year. Most importantly, she's a good student so a night off every now and then isn't going to be detrimental.
I think we would have been on our way to the 7:30 p.m. show at 4 p.m. if she had her way. She didn't want to miss a moment.
When Katy Perry finally took the stage at 9:13 p.m., my daughter understood why I wasn't in a rush. She also realized she wouldn't be home until midnight — much later than the kiddie-centric concerts we've gone to in the past. That's the only time I felt a bit of regret bringing her. I don't want a grumpy sleepy girl annoying teachers at school. I'm already asking for leniency on the half-finished homework.
Surprisingly, she's full of energy this morning. She's still on the concert high, and I hope she doesn't crash midday. She sang at the top of her lungs to all the popular songs, as well as lesser know songs. One of our favorites is "Pearl" because the end message is you don't define yourself by how others make you feel. Be strong and be yourself. Guess that's why we also love "Firework."
The concert wasn't as naughty as it could have been, so I really didn't have to explain much. It was sugary fun and a little sexy, but not so shocking that I'd blush since I have sixth grader to my side.
Still, I didn't get why so many moms brought their really little ones. Sure the sexy innuendo and explicit words goes over their head, but it's loud and hard to see when you are that small. Maybe they had ear plugs and moms had strong arms to carry them. My personal feeling is the show is best for 10 and older.
All the songs were so much candy-coated fun. We also loved her Katy-oke part of the show, where she sings other songs, including Rebecca Black's "Friday," Rihanna's "Only Girl," and Willow Smith's "Whip My Hair." She was silly and at the same time showed she can sing. She's not all music marketing. When she went "church," she showed how soulful and strong a voice she has.
We danced in our seats and had a great time. The only downer was at the end when suddenly my daughter wanted a T-shirt to remember the show. Ummm, no. The only
Looking forward to our next girls night out.
Cheers!
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
A big concert first: Katy Perry, my daughter and me
My daughter is a concert pro already and only in sixth grade.
Her first kid friendly show was the Cheetah Girls with a BFF. I joined her at Hannah Montana/Jonas Brothers/Miley Cyrus, which was followed by Selena Gomez, Miley Cyrus again, Jonas Brothers again and finally Justin Bieber. She even saw a bit of Kelly Clarkson at the state fair.
Now she graduates to a truly "big girl" show. I debated whether she should be my partner in crime going to Katy Perry's concert. When I went to P!nk, I didn't even consider bringing her. We both love P!nk, but I just felt like she was too young (9 1/2 at the time) and it wasn't the right time. And I think P!nk really offers very empowering songs for girls of all ages. Can't wait to take her next time.
But this time around, totally knowing that the Katy Perry concert will be adult focused, I said yes and bought tickets. Why? I want her to experience a concert put on by a musician whom she loves in MY presence.
I expect Katy Perry's show to push innuendo and be a bit naughty but sugary sweet based on the California Dreams tour reviews and what I've seen on YouTube. I also expect we'll have a great time dancing and singing TOGETHER.
I'm looking forward to talking about what happens on stage after. I love that my daughter still comes to me, openly asks questions, and I get to share my beliefs. I only have a small window to get my message out to her.
Honestly, my biggest concern is not being embarrassed by a dropped bad word or sexuality. We talk about these things ALL the time. I worry about my daughter's view being blocked since she's so petite. Praying that all the tall people are behind us.
Now, wonder if I should have my daughter wear her pink wig?
Cheers!
Her first kid friendly show was the Cheetah Girls with a BFF. I joined her at Hannah Montana/Jonas Brothers/Miley Cyrus, which was followed by Selena Gomez, Miley Cyrus again, Jonas Brothers again and finally Justin Bieber. She even saw a bit of Kelly Clarkson at the state fair.
Now she graduates to a truly "big girl" show. I debated whether she should be my partner in crime going to Katy Perry's concert. When I went to P!nk, I didn't even consider bringing her. We both love P!nk, but I just felt like she was too young (9 1/2 at the time) and it wasn't the right time. And I think P!nk really offers very empowering songs for girls of all ages. Can't wait to take her next time.
But this time around, totally knowing that the Katy Perry concert will be adult focused, I said yes and bought tickets. Why? I want her to experience a concert put on by a musician whom she loves in MY presence.
I expect Katy Perry's show to push innuendo and be a bit naughty but sugary sweet based on the California Dreams tour reviews and what I've seen on YouTube. I also expect we'll have a great time dancing and singing TOGETHER.
I'm looking forward to talking about what happens on stage after. I love that my daughter still comes to me, openly asks questions, and I get to share my beliefs. I only have a small window to get my message out to her.
Honestly, my biggest concern is not being embarrassed by a dropped bad word or sexuality. We talk about these things ALL the time. I worry about my daughter's view being blocked since she's so petite. Praying that all the tall people are behind us.
Now, wonder if I should have my daughter wear her pink wig?
Cheers!
Monday, August 1, 2011
Morning rush equals spaghetti breakfast
As I picked up school snacks and lunch box ingredients at Trader Joe's yesterday, I stopped only briefly in front of the milk. I thought of buying some, but didn't. And it created a bit of a dilemma at breakfast this morning.
The plan had been to stop by another nearby store for milk, produce and other sale items later. Breakfast was supposed to be ham and creamy scrambled eggs with apple juice. But then a storm came in, and well...
It didn't hit me until I pulled out the eggs this morning. No milk. Can't make them creamy like the kids love them. The standby vitamin-fortified cereal doesn't work without milk, too. Ugh!
So I punted. I pulled out the left over spaghetti with ground sirloin from the night before. Not a traditional breakfast, but it has protein. We put a bit of cheese on top and poured a glass of apple juice. Happens that breakfast had all four food groups, so I felt a little less mom guilt.
It's not the first this has happened, hence the GUILT. I've done pizza, chicken and grilled ham and cheese for breakfast, too. At least they're eating protein vs. sugar, right? I know I can't be alone.
While I feel bad about not serving up a traditional breakfast, my kids don't seem to mind. They love dinner at breakfast and breakfast at dinner. It's fuel all the same. Maybe I'll make some cashew and chocolate chip pancakes (fortified with ground flaxseed) with a side of ham tonight.
One thing is certain, I must buy milk at the grocery store today.
Cheers!
The plan had been to stop by another nearby store for milk, produce and other sale items later. Breakfast was supposed to be ham and creamy scrambled eggs with apple juice. But then a storm came in, and well...
It didn't hit me until I pulled out the eggs this morning. No milk. Can't make them creamy like the kids love them. The standby vitamin-fortified cereal doesn't work without milk, too. Ugh!
So I punted. I pulled out the left over spaghetti with ground sirloin from the night before. Not a traditional breakfast, but it has protein. We put a bit of cheese on top and poured a glass of apple juice. Happens that breakfast had all four food groups, so I felt a little less mom guilt.
It's not the first this has happened, hence the GUILT. I've done pizza, chicken and grilled ham and cheese for breakfast, too. At least they're eating protein vs. sugar, right? I know I can't be alone.
While I feel bad about not serving up a traditional breakfast, my kids don't seem to mind. They love dinner at breakfast and breakfast at dinner. It's fuel all the same. Maybe I'll make some cashew and chocolate chip pancakes (fortified with ground flaxseed) with a side of ham tonight.
One thing is certain, I must buy milk at the grocery store today.
Cheers!
Tuesday, July 26, 2011
Back-to-school anxiety
My daughter always looks forward to the new school year.
Who will be in my class?
Can't wait to make new friends!
Will the teacher be nice?
Can't wait to join choir, band, battle books, etc.
What will I wear?
But this year she wasn't as excited. Two girls who last year gave her trouble — both turning in physical altercations — are in her class. Even other moms could see the anxiety all over her face.
We tried to encourage her: It's a new year. Hopefully that's in the past. Try to be nice and send off positive energy. Just ignore them if they are mean. Tell an adult if the issue escalates. ... Our words didn't matter. She was STRESSED!
Her body language continued to exude anxiety and fear. It caused me and my husband heartache. We love our happy child. This was atypical behavior.
My husband and I discussed whether bringing up past issues when nothing has happened this year would be the right thing to do. I'll keep all the reasons to myself. But as everything in life, you have to pick your battles.
Day 2 of the school year, and all seems good. But I insisted we had say something anyway. It was a good decision, I think. We love that our daughter's teacher took our concern seriously and reassured our daughter.
As we left, our daughter told us how happy she was that we said something. We reminded her that when problems seem too big to handle that she should ask for help.
Tonight our daughter seemed excited about heading to Day 3. Here's hoping the year will be a good one.
Cheers!
Who will be in my class?
Can't wait to make new friends!
Will the teacher be nice?
Can't wait to join choir, band, battle books, etc.
What will I wear?
But this year she wasn't as excited. Two girls who last year gave her trouble — both turning in physical altercations — are in her class. Even other moms could see the anxiety all over her face.
We tried to encourage her: It's a new year. Hopefully that's in the past. Try to be nice and send off positive energy. Just ignore them if they are mean. Tell an adult if the issue escalates. ... Our words didn't matter. She was STRESSED!
Her body language continued to exude anxiety and fear. It caused me and my husband heartache. We love our happy child. This was atypical behavior.
My husband and I discussed whether bringing up past issues when nothing has happened this year would be the right thing to do. I'll keep all the reasons to myself. But as everything in life, you have to pick your battles.
Day 2 of the school year, and all seems good. But I insisted we had say something anyway. It was a good decision, I think. We love that our daughter's teacher took our concern seriously and reassured our daughter.
As we left, our daughter told us how happy she was that we said something. We reminded her that when problems seem too big to handle that she should ask for help.
Tonight our daughter seemed excited about heading to Day 3. Here's hoping the year will be a good one.
Cheers!
Sunday, July 24, 2011
Donating hair for a good cause
Today we went to the salon to donate 10 inches of hair to Locks of Love. She knew it would be shorter than the last time she made a hair donation. Then her hair was REALLY long.
We thought that first donation — just short of 12 inches — would be her only one. She had a few haircuts after, and then late last year she decided she was ready for a second donation. She's been talking about it all year, questioning the trims to keep her hair healthy and asking me to measure it regularly.
When I asked her why the donation meant so much, she said: "I just really want to help kids with greater needs than ours." She also said she'd love it if some girl cared enough to donate hair for her if it ever became medically necessary. My heart melted.
As we drove to the salon, my husband and I continued to compliment her choice. We're so proud that she's so giving at a young age.
She's sporting a cropped angled bob perfect for our harsh Arizona summers, and already talking about donation No. 3. If only I had so much heart when I was her age.
Cheers!
P.S. Thanks to her stylist at Dolce Salon & Spa in Chandler, which provides complimentary cuts to clients who donate at least 10 inches of hair to Locks of Love. They take care of the shipping, too. We just make sure to leave a tip.
Thursday, July 21, 2011
Dinner time, quality time
As a working mom (for now), time is precious.
I'm exhausted as soon as I walk in the door. And that's when the home chaos begins.
Both kids need attention. There's dinner to make (at least my husband helps A LOT!) and homework to check. And someone, usually my daughter, wants to hang out and talk. This is a good thing on many levels, but honestly sometimes I want to check out and recharge.
For now, I double up duties. Dinner is great for spending time with my kids. I don't mean just eating at the table and talking about our days. I'm using the time making dinner to be with my kids.
Both my angels love to cook, and they are old enough to help without the worry of little fingers touching a hot stove or knocking over boiling water. So now, I'm showing my daughter how to make my broccoli salad while talking about how to handle a mean girl. Or I'm supervising my son making chicken ravioli with my combo marinara/alfredo sauce while I get him to talk about anything. Teens!
I've heard friends say they've always had their kiddie help in the kitchen. I just couldn't when they were little. It added to my stress. I worried about injuries (well, I still don't like them cutting with big knives) and extra messes. Now, not so much.
They've always had input on the foods we eat. Now I'm thinking they are ready to make dinner on Friday nights. We'll still talk about their friends and stresses. But at least I'll be sitting down...or hope to be. I'll share how that goes...soon.
Cheers!
I'm exhausted as soon as I walk in the door. And that's when the home chaos begins.
Both kids need attention. There's dinner to make (at least my husband helps A LOT!) and homework to check. And someone, usually my daughter, wants to hang out and talk. This is a good thing on many levels, but honestly sometimes I want to check out and recharge.
For now, I double up duties. Dinner is great for spending time with my kids. I don't mean just eating at the table and talking about our days. I'm using the time making dinner to be with my kids.
Both my angels love to cook, and they are old enough to help without the worry of little fingers touching a hot stove or knocking over boiling water. So now, I'm showing my daughter how to make my broccoli salad while talking about how to handle a mean girl. Or I'm supervising my son making chicken ravioli with my combo marinara/alfredo sauce while I get him to talk about anything. Teens!
I've heard friends say they've always had their kiddie help in the kitchen. I just couldn't when they were little. It added to my stress. I worried about injuries (well, I still don't like them cutting with big knives) and extra messes. Now, not so much.
They've always had input on the foods we eat. Now I'm thinking they are ready to make dinner on Friday nights. We'll still talk about their friends and stresses. But at least I'll be sitting down...or hope to be. I'll share how that goes...soon.
Cheers!
Tuesday, July 19, 2011
Getting to know your child's teacher
The anxiety started weeks ago when I received the email with my daughter's supply list. Teacher's name was on top of the list. And my daughter's questions began:
What if she doesn't like me?
What if she's mean/too strict/no fun?
What if she doesn't think that I'm smart?
What if, what if, what if...
I have a whole different set of questions.
What if she doesn't like me?
What if she's mean/too strict/no fun?
What if she doesn't think that I'm smart?
What if, what if, what if...
I have a whole different set of questions.
Monday, July 11, 2011
Quick dinner tips No. 1 & 2
I'm not a perfect mom. Never will be, but I don't aspire to be perfect. Just a good mom who has time for her kids.
As a journalist, I've never had a 9-to-5 job. Early days, late nights, weekends...they happen.
To make the most of my precious time with my family, I must find ways to be efficient. At dinner, my time-saving helper is my cell phone.
As a journalist, I've never had a 9-to-5 job. Early days, late nights, weekends...they happen.
To make the most of my precious time with my family, I must find ways to be efficient. At dinner, my time-saving helper is my cell phone.
Sunday, July 10, 2011
No space for bargains
I can't pass up a bargain. I love, love, love paying $20 for sandals that were $80 when the "season" began. If they aren't too trendy, then it's likely I'll have them for a while. So it's no surprise that I have too many shoes in my closet.
Big-dollar savings make me swoon: 75 percent off shorts, 50 percent off purses, 80 percent off T-shirts...It makes me forget what I need to do and start my hunt. Can I find my size? What will the kids be wearing next year? Yes, I need roller blades (discounted 50 percent) because I will exercise come fall when the temps are much less intense.
Add those fun little discounts, such as $10 off a $25 purchase or 10 percent off your entire purchase, and I feel as though I HAVE to buy whatever I covet for the day. This is why I keep these coupons in my purse, JUST in case.
Big-dollar savings make me swoon: 75 percent off shorts, 50 percent off purses, 80 percent off T-shirts...It makes me forget what I need to do and start my hunt. Can I find my size? What will the kids be wearing next year? Yes, I need roller blades (discounted 50 percent) because I will exercise come fall when the temps are much less intense.
Add those fun little discounts, such as $10 off a $25 purchase or 10 percent off your entire purchase, and I feel as though I HAVE to buy whatever I covet for the day. This is why I keep these coupons in my purse, JUST in case.
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