We just got back from a quick trip to California, as many Arizona families do any chance they can.
We've had our share of intense theme park vacations, but we keep doing them because they can be quite fun, and great for bonding if you don't let the little things ruin the day(s) you spend at the park.
Here's what I've learned:
-Get your child's input. If you just do what you want to do, they will complain. We check out the theme park's website together and list the most important attractions or shows. Then we make sure everyone's top three things get done early in the trip. It takes the pressure off the rest of the trip.
-Know the ride restrictions. If you talk up something and then your child can't get on, expect disappointment. That said, many of the rides for bigger kids have rider-switch options for parents with little ones. While you wait, talk with your child. Find out what he or she wants to do next and if it's reasonable for your family, then go for it. We used to get churros or ice cream after when my daughter was too small for some rides. Letting them pick the next thing to do may make your child feel a little better about missing out on that special ride.
-Don't pack too much into your day. You'll end up with a lot of very tired people, and tired people tend to get grumpy.
-Expect the plan won't be followed. Things happen. Rides may be closed or lines can take longer than planned; a restaurant may have a super long wait or no kids menu; anyone can end up sick or not wanting to cooperate with the plan, etc. Don't stress about it. Laugh it off, if possible. Don't show your kids a parent tantrum. It will only add stress.
-Make time to not do anything and see what happens.
-Bring some favorite games and play as a family when you get back to your room. We pulled out Monopoly during our most recent trip, and we had tons of fun winding down from a busy day.
-Call ahead. If you are doing a specialty dinner and this is a must in your vacation, check if they take reservations. If they don't, then prepare for an alternate.
-That said, have alternates in your plan. Maybe rides aren't all that fun for some in your party. So maybe you cut out of the park early and go to the beach or a dinner show.
-Give your kids some responsibility as they get older. Let them be the official photographer or evening event planner. Make them take turns, too. You'll create conversation for later and lots of memories.
We had one of the best vacations just following these guidelines. The arguing as almost non-existent, and we did everything — including just vegging out at the hotel — that we wanted to do. Loved it!
Cheers!
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