It's frantic this time of year. Kids have projects due, while you have gifts to buy, parties to attend and people to entertain. And this is all on top of regular job/life duties.
Here's 5 lessons I've learned:
1. Label Christmas/holiday decoration boxes. We have about 20 boxes with lights, snowmen, wreaths, ornaments and more. Yes, my man loves Christmas. The labels will keep you from making a mess finding just where the heck you placed all those outdoor lights you bought on clearance. Or where you keep the stockings, ornament hooks, etc. Stay organized by returning all the items you pulled out in the right box. Otherwise, you'll be throwing a tantrum and wasting time looking next year. Plus, you'll need to clean up your mess after.
2. Just sign the card. I no longer worry about personalizing every holiday card. Believe me, most people are just happy you've remembered them. And if anyone complains about your lack of personalization, just ignore it. Why add to your stress? 'Tis the season to be jolly, not grumpy. Another option, get cards printed with a holiday greeting from your family. Photo cards are great because it feels a bit more special to get a picture. Plus, your names are already printed on the card. If you need to say more, I suppose you can consider a holiday letter. I'm not a fan. They take too much time.
3. Keep a list of addresses. In today's digital world, sometimes a physical address is forgotten. Take time one year to collect them, then send out an email or Facebook post asking friends to send you a private message if their address has changed from last year. The address list also can be used to make quick mailing labels.
4. Keep a to-do list. Yes, you might remember everything. But you might not. A list is helpful for remembering and planning ahead, saving you trips to the store. Besides, checking off things you've accomplished feels great. Remember to put down everything you need to do. That includes things like: pick up wine for party, wrap gifts, buy gift cards for teacher gifts, RSVP to neighbor's party, and buy supplies for class science project. Besides, being prepared reduces stress when your kid tells you that the science project is due tomorrow (you'll know because of the list) or you're running out the door to a party and NOT have to stop by the store.
5. Just say no. If it's too much to handle, don't feel like Scrooge for saying no. Stress can be terrible on your body, and slow you down when you don't have time to spare. So take care of yourself and your family first. Be gracious if you must decline a request, but be upfront and offer an alternate solution if you have one. "I'm sorry but I can't watch your kids while you shop, I'm already committed to a family event. But I know a great baby sitter looking to make some Christmas money." Or ..."Thanks for thinking of us. I've already made plans for that night. Let's plan to get together another time."
Cheers!
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